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How to Work with a Bad Listener

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It’s a challenge to work with people — peers, junior colleagues, or even bosses — who just don’t listen. Whether your colleagues interrupt you, ramble on, seem distracted, or are always waiting for their turn to talk, the impact is the same: You don’t feel heard, and the chances for misunderstandings — and mistakes — rise. Are there tactics you can use to encourage your colleagues to listen better? Should you talk to them about their poor listening skills ? What’s the best way to deliver the message? What the Experts Say “Dealing with colleagues who don’t listen is both hard and frustrating,” says Sabina Nawaz, a global CEO and executive coach. “When someone is not fully present, it erodes the quality of what you say.” The experience might, for instance, “cause you to lose your train of thought” or “suppress what you originally planned to communicate.” It’s also possible that “you could get derailed into the drama of why it’s happening,” she adds. “You might take it personally and thin...

The Best Rock Band You've Never Heard of Has a New Record Today

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Henry Rollins would like to introduce you to Oh Sees. Most Popular Charles Previtire <?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="no"????>AuthorCreated with Sketch. By Henry Rollins Aug 25, 2017 In 2005, the owner of indie label Narnack Records sent me a record he thought I'd like. The album was titled Peanut Butter and Jelly Live at The Ginger Minge . The band, from San Francisco, was called Coachwhips. The music sounded like it was incinerating as it was being played. I was instantly a fan. This was my introduction to bandleader John Dwyer , 42, a punk veteran hailing from Providence, Rhode Island, who, for the last two decades, and with at least five different bands, has written and released an intimidating amount of music. If I may offer my opinion, it's all good. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below In this line of work, there is no pension, no safety net. Sustaining a career for any length of time is hard enough. With his cr...

5 scams that are fooling even the smartest victims

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CLOSE Not all scams are easy to spot. Scammers are getting more and more sophisticated. Defend yourself. USA TODAY Browsing Facebook and checking email? Beware of these online scams. (Photo: Getty Images/iStockphoto) Many people laugh at scams. We see an email from a mysterious stranger. The note is full of odd phrases and terrible misspellings. We instantly share it on social media. “The Prince of Nigeria wants to send me bars and bars of gold!” we write, along with laughing emoji. “Should I take it?”  But not all scams are so easy to spot. Spammers get more sinister every day, and they use real- sounding email addresses , personal data, well-phrased letters, and actual corporate logos to lure their victims. The savviest con artists work remotely , coaxing money out of people they’ve never met in person.  Related: Learn more about a convincing tech support scam that people are falling for. In this era of rampant data theft and cyber-crime, it’s more important than ever to be aware...

Pets in the City: How to Make Apartment Living Work for You and Your Pup

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Living in an apartment with your canine companion isn ’t much different from living with a human roommate: They don't clean, they don’t pay for groceries and you're starting to suspect they don't even have a job. But canine roommates present additional , unique challenges. Arguably the biggest challenge for dog owners in apartments is having to escort their furry friend outside for all exercise — and all bathroom — breaks. That means rain, shine, sleet, snow, 6 a.m. or 3 a.m. or 11:30 p.m. — buddy, you’ve got to put on your pants. The Luxurious Lifestyle of New York's Poshest Pooches "If you’re living in an apartment with a dog, first and foremost the onus is more on you to get the dog out for all of his or her needs," says Mike Kaviani. Kaviani is the Director of Lifesaving Operations at the no- kill shelter Austin Pets Alive ! in Austin, Texas, and he says apartment living can in some cases actually benefit your pup. "As long as the owner is committed t...

How to hunt for an apartment in Boston

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By: yiseowl - Wednesday, Feb 26, 2014 - 11:11pm Searching for an apartment in Boston is a unique process…and a big pain in the ass. 79 percent of all rentals in Boston turn over their leases between September 1st and 14th, setting the stage for aggressive rental agents and frantic tenant hopefuls . Signing on something that’s not a complete piece of shit requires some legwork and a little bit of patience. Having lived in four different apartments over eight years in Boston, I thought I’d share my experience in finding a decent place for a good price. 1) Figure out where you want to live:  Budget and location are the two most important things to consider when looking for an apartment. The image below is a rental heat map put together by Jeff Kaufman — he used data from the website PadMapper. We took it a step further and added geographically accurate T stops. There’s a lot of useful info packed into this little map. For example, you can identify cheaper neighborhoods by looking at c...

How to Choose the Perfect Place to Retire | Business Markets and Stocks News

For most Americans, retirement is a long-awaited rest, and some locations are more comfortable than others. Caring.com's 2017 "Best and Worst States to Grow Old" study ranked all 50 states based on cost of living, healthcare, and quality of life, including senior care . The best states for retirement were Utah, Iowa, South Carolina, Washington, and Nebraska, ranked respectively, and the worst included West Virginia , Indiana, New York, North Dakota, and Wyoming.  Settling down in your golden years requires a lot of commitment, and it's imperative to weigh your options carefully. Make an informed choice by asking yourself these questions as you enter retirement. How much have you saved?  Whether you're dreaming of life on the beach or in a remote mountain cabin , the first (and less picturesque) step of retirement is practicality. Choosing your dream location often comes down to how well you can live off your savings. The table below compares Caring.com'...

Heated Rematch in Central Brooklyn, Where Incumbent Seeks to Hold City Council Seat

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Council Member Laurie Cumbo (@cmlauriecumbo) Hundreds of Crown Heights residents and community activists laughed and jeered at a recent community forum as a lanky man wearing a paper mask of Mayor Bill de Blasio joked about bringing affordable housing to their neighborhood. The event was punctuated by moments of levity but mostly dominated by anger from residents who feel their elected representatives have sold out their interests to the real estate industry , with a focus on the proposed redevelopment of the vacant Bedford Union Armory . The de Blasio administration , with a developer, is proposing a combination of affordable and market rate rental apartments , condominium units, and recreation space for the massive site. City Council Member Laurie Cumbo , who represents the district, did not attend the August 2 forum focused on the project -- she was just days from giving birth to a son -- and when representatives of her office tried to speak, they were shouted down. The ev...